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Good bit of coaching!

You know what else stops a narcissist? Asking them if they even deserve your love.

Since the age of 40-45 working out became a drug. Went from 250-lbs Size 3X down to Size M/178.8 and Narcissist(s) HATERS men/women/neighbors etc HATING envying me as we cross paths walking dogs/at the store ...Narcissists haters can't stand to even look at me in the eyes.Let alone wonder why I still look the way I look@age 50. I've noticed Narcissists/Haters Miserably age quicker. Dopamine is a great anti aging drug. Never needed to ever touch drugs/alcohol. Just needed a dog,Lots of Fresh Air. Binge 🎶 Listen to MUSIC and tune out n put haters/Narcissists on MUTE.

YES!!!

She panicks about her health and physical well-being, complains about it, uses it as an excuse, etc.

Thanks for good posting here!

She knows anything you do better and has some type of expertise in it

Oh my current almost not a gf

These three questions can be used by the passive narcissist to substantiate their delusions. They're innocent of any transgressions, however, if they use these and actually part ways with someone, but if they waffle back and forth, there's the problem - and a person is thereby getting victimized, via their own moral compunctions to stay with the person. "Gas lighting" is a very dangerous pop-psyche trope, and it has infected a lot of people who use it to substantiate their excessive sensitivity. There are three reasons why someone makes this claim: 1) They've been gaslit. 2) The other person is lying about what they just insinuated, but what they insinuated is fair, but now they're on the run because they see the insecure monster coming out. A common fair insinuation is that which comes in any pedestrian disagreement, over, say, how to conduct a household issue. Implied in every disagreement is the two party's greater intelligence on the matter at hand. Sensitive people, when the debate gets for them a certain way, tend to feel like they're being called stupid. We indeed are calling people stupid, specific to a particular subject ONLY, any time we have a disagreement. We cannot disagree with someone without thinking we're right and they're wrong. Being wrong is lacking intelligence in a moment, as we all do from time to time. The sensitive narcissist then turns to making the disagreement all about how they're being called stupid. The other person denies it (because they don't see themselves being mean, but rather standing up for the fact that they too get to have a say). Check yourselves folks. All this narcissism content can sometimes feed narcissism. 3) The other person in fact did not insinuate the thing, but the thing was imagined by the insecure person.

"She?" How about HE

It’s hard to get addicts to be accountable.

Normally I am a super-cynic . But this is gold. Subscribed.

Brilliantly succinct put. 1. What do I want? 2. What will I not tolerate? 3. What can I control? *What I want is the opposite of what I complain about, which gives me an action plan of what to do. *Be truthful (virtuous) towards myself of what I am doing, compassionate, and patient like a parent.

I don’t remember that

I just made that my screen saver… What do I want What will I not tolerate What can I control

I'll take that under advisement is what I say...

Fantastic!! Great actionable steps included and you didn't put anyone down. Thank YOU Thank you Thank you 🎉🦚 🦉 ✨

Thanks!

Thank you for coming straight to the point in your video without waffling on forever like so many others do!

These are the exact phrases from Jefferson Fisher

This video lesson was actually kind of helpful.🙉

Do you think the under empowered narcissist is one who would have a violent tantrum or abusive pattern of behaviour when hurt as part of their character trait... or is that a different "diagnosis"

I noticed that boundaries didn't work, so i decided to go no contact with my dad and oldest brother (narc and golden child). This is the first time in my life that my boundaries are actually respected by them and i'm 49 years old.

I love this guy. He's freaking awesome.

I needed this right now . thank you.

Thank you Kenny, great advice!

They can be or do anything they want AS LONG as they stay far, far away from me ❤

Thank you for sharing thank u for being truthful and u. I am healing from massive neglect. Its great to realize ehat u/i am feeling so i do not spural out of control but can see Myself objectively. Tears are rolling thank u.

niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeee man 😀

I had to work along side a narcissist, worst job ever! I was so exhausted every day from her antics.

Are you a narcissist? if silent... well... silent equals yes

We can beat Narcs with "AMERICAN TEETH" oh yes, American teeth can beat anything.

I blame, extra blame parents of narc. They support and enable him in abusing of women. They know narc is aggresive. They just want to think of themselves as best parents.😡

Thank you Kenny, for putting it in simple terms for so many people who can’t figure this out for themselves. You put the plan in a nutshell. People…….listen to the man……either grow the balls to do something about your plight, or you are choosing the path to remain the “powerless baby victim”. People, just Grow a pair and move on….. don’t let anyone erode your value. Fight for yourself. You are worth much better.

Human learns basic knowledge of living at childhood.. in my case until 15-years ( or just until teenage ). After that are coming experiences from what we may learn or just reject out of our lives.. our choices depends of our character and what stucked in us at childhood.. But all our life is fated of childhood..

i love this video , thank you, really helpful, great job, thank you

I'm not going to say 'LET ME" to anyone let alone a narcissist !!

Only in the USA,

Thank you

All dis in 20 min 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😭😭😭😭

Im getting the audio version !! 😭😭🔥👌🏾

Cuh u speakin FACTZZZZZZZZ !!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Cuh said my picker broke 😭😭 FACTS !! 💯😭👌🏾

Brilliant! Thanks.

This can fit BPD too really close but not all of it fits.

I've read the thumbnail "2 magic words to stop a narcissist" completely wrong... was expecting "abracadabra" and "hocus pocus"

Kenny Weiss, can I ask you a question? We are taught to not diagnose children because they have super develop any emotional connections and that is not fully developed until they are I can't remember the exact age 26 or 28 years of age for men and a little younger with women. That was taught to me years ago in my first classes. Has that changed? I mean I know myself personally but I can see a kid that is likely gonna grow up with narcissistic behaviors that won't go away. You know something borderline, even Grandy oaks, And definitely antisocial personality because of the rule breaking aspect, but I guess there's chance for empathy to them to develop even after the first 10 years or so or over. That's what they teach.

anthropophobia is the most common of all

foolish to assume everyone was yelled or shamed into anger or anthropophobia